Wordsmithing Magic from the Crossroads

For Love, For Earth, We Gather This Night; It’s Time to Spark Our Fourth Candle’s Light

Four of five candles lit from 2020 Ceremony

Photo courtesy of Rosario Vega Castañeda, from our 2020 ceremony

The Earth is steadfast and holds all that I need in Her open hand.
I am glad to wait in the silent breath of the Earth.
She is courage and love
She, comfort and support.
The Earth is joy and my source of strength.
Angela Magara, Psalm 27, Earth Psalms

Today is the fourth and final Sun Day before Winter Solstice, Christmas, and Kwanzaa. Tonight, you are invited to join once again (or for the first time) in our Yule/Advent ritual.

If you are celebrating this rite from a Pagan perspective, the fourth candle may represent the direction of North, or the element of Earth. In many Christian traditions, the fourth candle on the Advent wreath symbolizes Love.

Isn’t it divine, how these two meanings — the Earth, and Love, which are fundamental to our two traditions — are so harmoniously intertwined?

So tonight, gather with your beloveds, or in your quiet solitude, knowing in either case, you are not alone. There are great numbers of us circling the planet. We are all gathering as darkness falls, which depends as much on latitude and Earth positioning as on clock time or time zone.

Turn out the lights where you are, and have your wreath, candles and lighter ready. Then, ground yourself, find your center, and create sacred space in whatever way is right for your practice.

In the twilight, consider again (as you did on Nov. 28) the fears that might be associated with Hope and Expectations (in many Christian traditions) or else the Element of Air: knowledge, information, understanding, communication. Light this candle and in so doing, we dispel and forgive the ways those types of fear exist.

Then, move to the next candle that you lit Dec. 6 – the candle that represents the Element of Fire, the direction of South. For our Christian friends, this candle often represents the Bible, the principle of knowledge, or the manger in Bethlehem.

In what ways do the matters associated with this candle, when out of balance, create suffering in our world? And in what ways do you offer your prayers for them to be healed? As you send out your call for blessings, light this candle.

This brings us now to the third candle, which we lit last week. In the Christian church, this candle is often pink, and represents Joy. For Witches, Druids, Pagans, and other Earth paths, I’ve suggested that it might represent the direction of West, and the Element of Water. Water is the Guardian of our emotions, intuition, empathy, compassion, and is sacred to Autumn and the setting Sun.

In what ways do fear, selfishness, distortion, and misunderstanding pollute the waters of our emotions, as well as the literal, life-giving waters of our world? How are our emotions being manipulated by craven greed and anti-democracy scheming by those in positions of power?

And uppermost in our hearts this year are the more than five million deaths we are grieving due to the pandemic, with another devastating surge now crashing down upon us.

So, as you light your third candle, send prayers that we may be agents of calm despite the roiling waves threatening to drown us all.

Tonight’s Candle

Now, we come to the last candle before the holiday itself. Prior to lighting the fourth candle for tonight, consider the aspects that are related to the Earth, or Love, that need our attention.

What fears, scarcities, illusions, and avarice have contaminated our holy Mother Earth, and our relationships with Her? What is our definition of wealth, scarcity, and sufficiency?

How do we, ourselves, treat our planet? While it is lovely to appreciate all the beauty, bounty, and treasure She offers us, how do our daily decisions actually affect Her?

For instance, what kinds of labor conditions, financial structures, and wealth (or lack of it) do my daily purchases support? Where do my electronics, cosmetics, jewelry, furniture, and clothing come from?

Lake representing the ecological call to recycle and reuse in the form of a pond with a recycling symbol in the middle of a beautiful untouched jungle

And where does my stuff go when I no longer want it? Of course, I don’t throw garbage out my car window, or litter the streets of our city. But I am still half-responsible for the trip we make to the Durham County Solid Waste and Recycling site every three or so weeks (we don’t have access to city trash services).

How much do I know about the stewardship practices of the merchants that I support with my money? Do they acquire their resources in responsible ways? How do they dispose of their wastes and by-products?

The convulsions in our economy; the growing impact of hunger, disease, and ecological collapse; the uncertain backing behind our money; our response to natural disasters; the contamination and genetic modification of our food; and the very future of a habitable planet are all Earth issues have reached a crisis point.

Yes. Pretty heavy stuff.

But we have a candle before us. We can bring the light.

Blessings to the Dark; Welcome Bringer of the Light

So I invite you to give thanks for the dark, for the blessed Earth.


Feel in your bones the truth of cosmic Law, for this is the gift of our Ancestors. Love is the law.

Silent Guardian of the North, we stand on your threshold of Winter. Keeper of the deep places in the planet, the roots that are beyond knowing, we now light our fourth candle together, celebrating the great Love we all share with one another, and with this beautiful, divine Creation of which we are a part.

Four lit candles with artwork from Alicia Bay Laurel

Photo courtesy of Alicia Bay Laurel, from our 2020 ceremony

We see in this light that we are not, never were, and never will be separate from the One who gives us life. So we now summon our best, most powerful magics and blessings.

Feel now the turning. Know with your skin the sweet changes that herald a more healthful, balanced, right relation with all beings living here with us on our Grandmother Gaia.

Understand in your gut, in your heart, in your mind, and sweet animal body how an intelligent, benevolent, loving exchange brings wealth to all.

Consider the many wisdom traditions scattered across our planet, who show through their customs and practices that we can learn how to take only what we need, to be generous with each other, and to end forever the blight of greed.

Enough is enough.

Know in your body, feel in the soles of your feet how everything is already changing. Despite the agonizing death throes of the paradigms of greed and war, our love, our work, our hand-to-hand, spirit-to-spirit creation of community and cultures of sustainability, beauty, and comfort are on their way, stirring to life within and around us.

They don’t make the headlines. But they are there.

Because we are here.

Send the light and the love of your intention out to join with the light from our friends everywhere, in every continent across the planet, participating this night with you.


At this most quiet moment of the deepest dark, lit now by your ring of bright candles, see, sense, and receive the Divine One’s gifts of courage and joy for you, and the abiding, eternal Love that supports you, always.

After a period of meditation, song, stories, and/or affirmations, extinguish each candle in reverse order, from tonight’s to last week’s to the second, and then the first one.

So may our words and desires be fulfilled for the good of all.

See you at the Birthing.

Blessed be!

Deer silhouette on hillside under Full Moon

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nofixedstars December 19, 2021, 8:42 am

beautiful thoughts, thank you beth!

with this full moon that just happened last night, i have been feeling strongly an ancestral pull, too…in my spiritual practice, north/earth is also the realm of the ancestors. the cold, dark, quiet place where we go back into the cauldron before rebirth…

as you say above: “Know in your body, feel in the soles of your feet how everything is already changing. Despite the agonizing death throes of the paradigms of greed and war, our love, our work, our hand-to-hand, spirit-to-spirit creation of community and cultures of sustainability, beauty, and comfort are on their way, stirring to life within and around us.”

here, at solstice-tide, yuletide, the darkest moment of our year and the solar cycle turning point, we find the perfect timing for realising these things. for incubating a new paradigm in ourselves, one based on the best of our ancient past and our best forward-looking visions.

it’s really a beautiful, wondrous time of year.

Beth December 19, 2021, 8:47 am


Ione December 19, 2021, 6:07 pm

Wonderful, Beth! Thank you and everyone in our worldwide circle. I feel our connection & our growing Light! Merry Yuletide and Blessed Solstice! Ione

Beth December 20, 2021, 12:07 pm

Right back to you, Ione! Isn’t it amazing? And so needed, I think.

Blessed Alban Arthan, dearest one!

Listen carefully. The answers to
our deepest questions are often whispered.

~ Wayne Gerard Trotman

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