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Happy Aphrodite’s Day!

Happy Aphrodite’s Day!

Do you not see how mighty is the Goddess Aphrodite? She sows and gives that love from which all we upon this earth are born.
— Empedocles ca. 490-430 BCE

Instead of honoring the various Christian martyrs named St. Valentine on this date, let us celebrate what we REALLY want this day to be about: the divine, the human, the erotic, glorious and beautiful realm of Love!

I hearby reclaim this holiday in the Name of beautiful Aphrodite!

Often known as “The Golden One,” She is worshipped with gifts and ornaments of gold, which, like Her eternal youth and beauty, never tarnishes. Doves and lovebirds are also often associated with Her because of their gentle natures. She is a Goddess of flowers, as well. Sound familiar?

There are many incarnations of this Goddess of Love and Physical Beauty. Her power transcends culture and time. She is known as “Aphrodite Marina,” “Maiden of the Sea,” “Aphrodite Urania,” and simply the “Goddess of Love.” Her Roman identity is Venus.

Although one of the most widely recognized of the Greek Goddesses, She probably did not originate in Greece, but was a Mother Goddess that came from the sea traders of the eastern Mediterranean. Some scholars believe that Aphrodite is a version of the older Goddess, Astarte.

However, of the Triple Goddess aspects, She is not thought of as a Mother Goddess, but embodies the Maiden Goddess. Bear in mind that the Maiden is not usually an untouched virgin, but instead, is free of ties to marriage or relationship, and is not dependent on a lover or husband for Her power, identity, or security.

Aphrodite is well known for her love affairs, which were numerous and rather spectacular, and resulted in many offspring. Her most notable lovers were the Gods Ares, Dionysius, Hermes, Poseidon, and the mortal, Adonis.

Although Aphrodite is beautiful, and beloved by all the Gods and Goddesses of Olympus (no small feat in itself!), She is no wimp. She is very serious about honoring the gifts of love and sexuality, and can be harsh against those who thwart the natural flow in all living beings. To punish Glaucus for refusing to let his mares breed, She caused the mares to throw him from his chariot during a race, after which they ate him. She does not mess around!

As coach and inspirational teacher Vered Neta points out, “Aphrodite’s abilities were not simply a tool for creating petty loves. They were in fact a real instrument of power, which could affect all beings.”

She writes, “Aphrodite shows and teaches us how powerful our love can be. She can be a role model for us, that beyond anything else, love can become a powerful force in our lives and not some weak element as we see it in today’s songs and culture, where being in love is losing our power.”

So instead of a day filled with our culture’s underlying messages of loneliness, conflicted sexuality, and tragic love, let us instead welcome and reclaim the gifts of powerful Aphrodite, Whose mission is to serve the loving desires of both mortal and immortal alike.

Let us rejoice as we obey Her demands that we fully honor as good and blessed the erotic forces within ourselves and all of life.

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  • February 14, 2008, 12:26 pm deborah oak

    fantastic! I am for it!

  • February 14, 2008, 2:50 pm Anonymous

    Just trying to catch up a bit. I love aphrodite!!


  • February 15, 2008, 1:29 am earthreflection

    Great Tribute! Yes!

  • February 15, 2008, 7:34 am Yvonne

    Ermm, wrong goddess – it was originally the day of Juno, goddess of marriage.

    According to an email I received from SoulForce today: “When the Roman Emperor Claudius II sought more soldiers for his brutal military campaigns, he tried to deny young Roman men the right to marry — apparently believing that single men might be more easily persuaded to join his legions. Valentine, a Christian priest living in a pagan world, defied the emperor’s decree and continued to observe the holiday honoring Juno, Roman goddess of marriage, by secretly marrying young Roman couples. When his defiance was discovered, Valentine was jailed – and subsequently died on February 14, 269 C.E.”

    Also, 14th and 15th February was the Roman festival of Lupercalia.

  • February 15, 2008, 9:42 am Beth Owl's Daughter

    Hey, Yvonne! That is really interesting information, and I feel a lot kindlier towards Valentine knowing this.

    While I would never want to get on Juno’s bad side, I still think that Aphrodite deserves this to be Her day, as well! Perhaps Blessed Juno would not mind sharing.

    Many thanks for your note! I really appreciate it.
    — Beth

  • March 24, 2008, 7:36 pm nightsinge

    Great! Though her day really should be in April, the month in which she was born of the sea.